After 22 years of marriage, the pain became too much to continue and we separated.  The pain we caused each other was a way of life.  We had somehow found ourselves in a toxic pattern and did not know how to get out or even move in any direction.  We tried counselling for many years and even one counsellor completed our sessions by saying “I can’t help you.” I had talked to a friend about EFPT and saw the kind of healing I knew we needed in our marriage.  With not much hope, we started our journey to healing ourselves and our marriage with Wildgrace Counselling using EFPT. It was the hope I was looking for. As we moved forward and through our painful emotions that owned us, the EFPT process brought us to peace, understanding and being a comforter to our emotions. Our marriage is better today than I could ever have hoped for and my husband is literally the man of my dreams.  He has grown from a man shut down to everyone and everything, into a man who can love, meet his family and lead them into healing. I cannot tell you how grateful I am for the work being done by Wolfgang and Wildgrace Counselling.