After 22 years of marriage, the pain became too much to continue and we separated.  The pain we caused each other was a way of life.  We had somehow found ourselves in a toxic pattern and did not know how to get out or even move in any direction.  We tried counselling for many years and even one counsellor completed our sessions by saying “I can’t help you.”

I had talked to a friend about EFPT and saw the kind of healing I knew we needed in our marriage.  With not much hope, we started our journey to healing ourselves and our marriage with Wildgrace Counselling using EFPT.

It was the hope I was looking for.

As we moved forward and through our painful emotions that owned us, the EFPT process brought us to peace, understanding and being a comforter to our emotions.

Our marriage is better today than I could ever have hoped for and my husband is literally the man of my dreams.  He has grown from a man shut down to everyone and everything, into a man who can love, meet his family and lead them into healing.

I cannot tell you how grateful I am for the work being done by Wolfgang and Wildgrace Counselling.

I am forever grateful to have met, and receive therapy from Wolfgang Wildgrace. The tools and wisdoms we have learnt from Wolfgang has enriched our lives in so many ways, and has been key to helping an issue in our life that seemed impossible to improve. After meeting Wolfgang, it is easy to see that his unique Therapies is not just an occupation to him, but his absolute passion, and no doubt his calling. His desire and commitment to help us was evident in every single visit, and his care is genuine and professional. I trust Wolfgang with the most sensitive information, and also with guiding our family. We are so blessed to have found Wolfgang and I would never hesitate in recommending him, and do so with much excitement, as I’d love others to experience the guidance we did! From the bottom of our hearts, Thankyou Wolfgang. Mrs C, Gladstone.

When I was recommended to Wolfgang I was about at rock-bottom. I felt completely joyless, depressed and anxious, confused, angry, scared and was having a lot of suicidal thoughts. On the surface I was ‘coping’ but underneath I was drowning. I didn’t want to be in life anymore.

I’ve seen a lot of different councillors and psychologists – all of which had their place – but none of which have helped me understand and actually change myself like Wolfgang has. I knew Wolfgang was different from our first session. With understanding, love, compassion and integrity – he’s helped me uncover why I felt like I did, why I reacted and behaved like I did – and most importantly – how I could change it. He showed me how I can live without fear, without rage, without doubt, without anxiety – my previous best-friends!

I now enjoy a very different life day-to-day. I have healthy relationships – with myself, my partner, my family & friends and people around me. Sure, I’m not perfect and every day is not ‘bliss’ – but I FEEL different, I AM different – happier, much less anxious, experiencing joy, desire – now I want to be alive! I have tools to cope when things don’t feel so good and I can be back to myself now in minutes not days or weeks. What you learn you keep because you experience it yourself – and it feels so much better than how it usually did.

Apart from being one of the most honest, vulnerable, open, genuine human beings I know – Wolfgang is also by far and away the best partner you could wish for to take you through your healing journey to find your soul, your life and your true self. Wolfgang is crystal-clear with boundaries and with my space and emotional experiences and I’ve always felt safe with him.

If you want to know the truth about how you’re behaving, why you feel like you do and how your behaviour is adversely affecting you, your loved ones and those around you – and change it – then go and see Wolfgang.